Just a thought...
My 15 year old grandson came to me a little while ago.
Very seriously , he said 'Nana, you know what?, I have Asperger Syndrome and ADHD . I just smiled. He said 'You must have already known'. We just laughed and I told him I have ADD. Yes I knew. We just have Interesting Brains.
It's now our private joke.
If you can, try to keep it light and relax while you are learning about this.
With my grandson , we did a heavy metal cleanse. It helped with both syndromes. It's an alternative method and may not be for everyone. I am not discounting Medication.
He has a photographic mind . Has had a few Art Shows.
He even has a girl friend...smile. They go to museums together.
I know, Nana's bragging.